Friendship
Yea this is a emo post. What is friend for me ? Friends are whenever you said they won't get angry, whenever bad happen on you they will stand by your side and help you figure out how to solve it. But things will change over time, we used to be good like family, support each others all the time, even when there is conflict, we can solve it easily.
I used to think guy friend are less small gas, less conflict, less argument, less doubting and less comment. But actually they are actually contrast than actual. Maybe we get to know each others, like couples getting knowing each other then boy side start to get bored and wasn't patient like before, and less gentlemen too. Those guys friends will start to have conflict but I don't know why. What I said and suggest they disagree. Alright here is my case.
Guy A : a impatient people, the way he talk was straight, two face people, he will never think the consequence of what he had spoke ( this guy had a lot case of it so its not only my comment )
Guy B : a quite guy, he won't have argument no matter how you say about him, he used to be a good middle guy
Guy C : gym addict, less argument
Ps : These guys are all funny and interesting guy
The last time we good to each others, I think is about half year ago. Long time right ? I don't actually know how we maintain it till now. There are a lot conflict and quarrel between it. First case was because guy B I think, guy B fall in love with a hopeless play girl. This girl got a lot 'histories'. Yea histories, means she dumped a lot guy. Of coz she have good skills to make guys like her. And guy B was positioned by her that time, we keep advising him to get away from her coz she is a truly b*tch slut. Lol.. That's how the conflict start, he thinks the girl will change for him. I was commented a lot negative things that would hurt him. Because I think he is the guy will never argue back but one day he did. We was totally shocked, and he mention that he will follow his heart. By the time guy A came support him, he helped him to argue with me but he is the one who disagree too firstly. The conclusion of the their 'romance' was what we predicted. She dumped guy B. I'm proudly to say my prediction was correct but it became those bad comment to me. They seems hate me by that time.
Guy A, it's because a small conflict. He made it big. Wednesday is movie's day that we could use the cheaper price to watch movie on the day. It was during Hari raya so those friends was having holiday but curtins doesn't have holiday for raya. Then guy A suggested to watch movie at the Tuesday morning. Then some of the people in whatsapp group replied him. He said if watch today will only cost 14 but if we watch at Wednesday will be 7. Those are what he said earlier. But actually the price for Tuesday without discount will be 11. I just mention that in groups couples times. Others reply reply reply then suddenly his message appears. The first of the time since I born, I scolded by people using rude words. So it's okay. I hold my emotion back I see how he said. He asked us to see a picture. It's a picture that he used apps to check price. The price there was 14 but he didn't realize he clicked 2 person. So one person is 7. Then I just said its 7 because he clicked two person so it's 14. He was more angrier when I explained about that. He said me takes small things to quarrel but he is the one who did mistake. What do I did there ?! I wants the conflict turns small so I apologized first since I have no mistake there. But he ignored it. Fine... There is a knot in our heart since that day.
Here come another girl in that group birthday soon ! I'm always the planner which plan all the birthday celebration for others, I don't know why but I just like to plan it. I planned a lot of birthday celebration this year so this time I thought I can be the planner also. I had a briefly plan since a month ago and I had also imagined a lot about the celebration. It will be extremely FUN! This is what I thought... As I mention earlier I was busying in assignment and bunch of exams. So I didn't have time to start a conversation of the celebration. Alright someone had started the group and conversation then I just say out my plan. They was ignore it, I know they got a exam at the next day but neither I ? I was planned last minute plan last year for the girl's birthday so I'm guilty then trying to plan a good one to surprise her. But things came contractually, they doesn't want a surprising celebration and they said simple could be meaningful. Here comes the second quarrel because I think the guy A was suggested a bull shit plan. Berkenu for lunch ?! He was the one want the celebration is simple and meaningful and while the cost he want to be damn cheap. Did he know how much a lunch in berkenu cost ?! My dad is the loyal customers there and I know that will cost about 300 plus a lunch there. So I was argue ing again. The third time quarrel, I hold my anger the third times. I said they are the one want to make it simple and meaningful, but I couldn't find any 'meaningful' moment inside the plan. So we change plan again. I have a plan, just dinner and give birthday. Simplest ever, alright no argument coz the birthday girl likes to eat crab and I highlighted about it. As I like they started to choose restaurant and what dishes to order. All are ready, I settled the cake but present not yet be settle. The girl's bf suggested that New York Yankees baseball shirt that the girl likes a lot. We couldn't found ready stock from Malaysia and its exp so we decide to buy not original one. We search around imperial mall and parkson and we couldn't found a women shirt but different brands of man shirt . So this option was canceled . My bf and I walk around the mall and found the present which would most attract girls heart is.... PERFUME ! A perfume ! Of coz I knew its exp but it's a good and efficient present. Girls all agree with it but guys disagree . But we have some option that are we eat less but bought good present, second was eat more but normal present. I'm the one who prefer the good present coz it cost almost the same if we divide all of it but good present will be more costy. Fourth argument they said they don't have to say what because whenever I said I will decide myself. The truth was I thought we all agreed earlier coz they didn't say about anything but guy B suddenly said he think the perfume is exp and he rather buy two quicksilver shirt with will be more worthwhile. I had explained to him why I choose perfume, because girl will more prefer girly things than a tshirt although its a good idea. End up with they say me about that. I have no comment about that, I know I'm stubborn in that thing and I not gonna to change my mind if you don't have a better option that could make me change my mind. They didn't. The expensive just their excuse to argue with me. i know they doesnt like me. I throw out the message that separate present. They bought their present I buy what I like. So the second thing after that is message to the people who customize journal for sales. I know it would be a perfect present to her. So I didn't think twice and I ordered it. Here comes the middle man trying to say things between us. Then lastly they didn't have better present option so they share with mine and plus a bracelet which birthday girl's bf suggest. So that's all the case, for me I know I did some things really will makes people angry. But you guys are dislike like before like you used to. Think about it.
Lastly special thanks to my boy who always stand by my side like always like before ❤
